People with dementia can sometimes behave in strange ways. They can be very out of character, particularly if the part of the brain that controls emotions is affected.

You may feel hurt, angry or embarrassed when this happens but do remember that this is part of the illness. Getting into arguments isn't helpful. It may be better to distract them rather than shout at them. You can also just simply leave them to get on with it if they are not distressed or in danger. 

This behaviour can be very hard to deal with and carers across the country find their own way of dealing with it. It is something that you have to experience to know how you will react to it. Unusual behaviour can include: rocking, calling out, agitation, odd movements such as wiggling and experiencing hallucinations. 

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The person is probably trying to communicate something to you so it may happen when they are frightened, bored, in pain or when they are frustrated. You may also find that people with dementia lose their self control, their inhibitions or judgement as a result of their dementia. 

You can speak to your GP about this subject and ask to be referred to your community mental health team, if you are not already in touch with them. 

You could also see if there is a carers support group in your area that can help. Speaking with carers about this behaviour may help you understand it more. 

Please explore our website further for more information about dementia and caring for people with dementia.